Whisper in the library, the doctor's office, the church, the funeral home. Quiet. Observe respectful hush in a rush of social conscience. Do not run. Shout. Pout. Push. You can smile but not too big. Stand but not too tall. Sit so you don't fall. Emotion has no motion when constrained by social obligation to know your station in a hushed life.
Love, light, and laughter!